Gay Fathers of Toronto

Coming out to your wife....

For some men this is where their coming out story begins. For others it is one of the last stages and in a few situations, it never occurs. In just about every case, it is an emotionally laden process.

Howard's Tale  - told as theatrical productions - covers a lot of issues. It concludes:

"And remember also, if you don't come out, it will. You cannot live a lie forever and be happy, sane,  and healthy. Any kind of compromise, any kind of ultimate confrontation, is better than suffering in silence, alone. Anything is better than the guilt, the self-hate, and the bitterness."