Gay Fathers of Toronto (GFT) is a support group that has been helping men on their journey for over 30 years. We are here to support you in whatever path you believe is right for you. We are not here to tell you what to do, but to support you in whatever path you feel is right for you.

Many men come to their first meeting with pressing problems, feeling vulnerable, and concerned about why lies ahead. By respecting your personal boundaries, we want to make sure that you feel safe revealing and discussing personal issues. The privacy of each of us must be respected by all of us.

What to Expect at a GFT meeting*

When you first arrive you'll notice that the group is not large. The atmosphere is relaxed, friendly, and casual as men stand around chatting and drinking coffee. You'll be greeted by a facilitator. Two trained facilitators who are also gay fathers lead each meeting - one works with newcomers, the other leads the main group discussions. Religion, politics, social activism, or personal agendas play no part in our meetings, the discussions, or the organization.

After the preamble, newcomers are invited to join a small group of two or three men where their pressing issues can be addressed and where they can learn more about how GFT works. You don't have to share if you don't want to; you can just listen and learn.

Sharing simply means telling your own story, your own experiences, or your concerns or issues and listening to other men as they tell theirs. It is a peer support group. Men help each other by listening and by sharing their discoveries, their experience in a non-judgmental setting. You won't be criticised or judged and no question is unimportant. Be assured that everything you say remains strictly confidential and never leaves the room.

Whether you are still in your marriage, separated, divorced, closeted or out to your spouse and children, family or friends, GFT has no prescription for your future. We're here to support you on whatever path you've decided to follow.

Collectively, there's a lot of wisdom in the group. Through sharing and hearing of other men's experiences you'll gain strength and knowledge. GFTalso periodically schedules special meetings where family counsellors, lawyers, psychologists and other experts are invited to meet those interested. And, yes, we occasionally get together for social events which you are invited to and welcome to attend. See the calendar for more information about social activities.

We understand how coming out to yourself, your wife, children, family and friends can be an emotionally challenging and daunting experience. At GFT meetings you will learn that you are not alone. Some of the men are in situations similar to yours, others have worked their way through many of the same issues. Together, we can make our journeys smoother.

*Meetings begin at 7:30 pm on the 1st Thurs and 3rd Thurs, every month. See the Calender for details.

Location: 42 Charles St. E, Toronto, ON